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I just found out the local library (RWC) is sponsoring a talk entitled “The transgender assault on Women and Girls”. The description of the talk says it’s about allowing trans women in women’s sports, but the title and the descriptions of the speakers sure as heck makes it look like it’s about more than that. In other ways this library has been very welcoming to LGBTQ+.

I want to respond but I’m having trouble figuring out how. I don’t mind being out to the city government or library but I don’t want to wade through a lot of vitriol if I post publicly. Do you have any thoughts?

Options:
Write an email to the local newspaper where the announcement was posted
Write an email to someone at the library, but who?
Write an email to the county Pride center
Write an email to the city council
Post on NextDoor
Post on Facebook (the local library has a page) and Bluesky
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Posted by Heather Rose Jones

Saturday, May 30, 2026 - 07:00

Lesbian Historic Motif Podcast - Episode 343 – Salt for the Unmarried by Khayelihle Benghu - transcript

(Originally aired 2026/05/30)

Before introducing the episode, I have a logistical announcement. I recently broke my arm, which is going to get in the way of extensive typing for a couple of months. Therefore I’m going to be re-running some favorite episodes from the past until I’m back in action. I hope that will tide you over in the mean time.

Our fiction episode for this quarter is set in early 19th century Ghana in West Africa. The intersection of colonialism and female solidarity brings out a gentle, poetic love story.

The author, Khayelihle Benghu, is an emerging author, poet, essayist, and dedicated nurse based in Johannesburg, South Africa. Her work blends practical care with creative expression, drawing inspiration from everyday rhythms and the natural world. Khayelihle’s poems have appeared in Eyes to the Telescope, Person of Interest, and Ake Review. She writes across poetry, fiction, and hybrid forms, often exploring themes of memory, resilience, communal love, and hope.

I will be the narrator for this story.

This recording is released under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivatives 4.0 International Public License. You may share it in the full original form but you may not sell it, you may not transcribe it, and you may not adapt it.


Salt for the Unmarried

By Khayelihle Benghu


The salt pans shone like broken sky. Ama Nyarko walked barefoot across the hardened mud, her feet knowing the path without thought. She carried a shallow basket against her hip, already crusted white. The air burned. The sea breathed in and out beyond the low ridge, patient and untroubled by human arrangements.

Behind her, someone cleared their throat.

Ama did not turn. The salt punished distraction. It required attention the way fire did.

“I was told you would guide me,” the woman said.

Ama straightened slowly. She wiped her hands on her cloth and faced the speaker.

The woman was dressed badly for the coast: boots too tight, sleeves buttoned despite the heat. Her skin was pale but not English-pale, her hair dark and braided close to her head. She held a leather-bound book like a shield.

“I do not guide,” Ama said. “I harvest.”

The woman swallowed. “I only need to observe.”

Ama considered her. Another clerk, then. Another mouth sent by men who never stepped into the pans themselves.

“You may stand there,” Ama said, pointing to a strip of shade near the salt sheds. “If you step into the pans without knowing, you will ruin weeks of work.”

“I won’t,” the woman said quickly. “I’m Elizabeth Hartwell.”

Ama nodded once. Names were exchanged lightly here, like greetings. “Ama Nyarko.”

Elizabeth smiled, then seemed to remember herself and smoothed her expression into something official.

They worked in silence for a while.

Elizabeth’s pencil scratched. Ama’s basket filled and the sun climbed. Gulls argued overhead. The salt hissed faintly beneath the sun’s weight, a sound like breath caught in the throat.

“What happens if it rains?” Elizabeth asked at last.

Ama paused. “Then we wait again. Salt is patience made visible.”

Elizabeth nodded, writing. “The Governor wishes to understand production methods.”

Ama laughed once, sharp. “The Governor wishes to own them.”

Elizabeth did not deny it.

She had not expected the salt to be so alive, not just the crystals, but the women who coaxed them from the earth. She had imagined a process, a system, something she could chart and quantify. But here, the work resisted her categories. It was not a factory but something closer to a rhythm. — a pulse that refused to be reduced to machinery. Each gesture carried memory, each repetition a difference, more like song than system.

That night, Ama dreamt of water rising through the pans, washing everything back into the sea. When she woke, she found Elizabeth waiting near the fire, rubbing oil into blistered hands.

“You didn’t listen,” Ama said.

Elizabeth winced. “I thought I could help.”

“You cannot help salt by touching it.”

Elizabeth looked up. “Can you teach me?”

Ama should have refused. She did not.

The days folded into one another.

# # #

Elizabeth learned where to step, how to skim without breaking the surface, how to read the wind. Her hands toughened and her speech loosened. She stopped writing so much and began to hum as she worked, low and tuneless, the way the other women did.

They ate together. They argued about measurements. Elizabeth spoke of ledgers and quotas; Ama spoke of tides and seasons. Neither convinced the other.

At night, Elizabeth stayed in the compound, her presence drawing quiet looks. Ama ignored them.

It was not unusual for women to share space, to sleep close, to work together. It was unusual, perhaps, for Ama to notice the weight of Elizabeth’s arm across her waist, the warmth of her breath at the nape of her neck.

She noticed anyway.

One evening, Elizabeth brought a mango from the market, overripe and dripping. They shared it in silence, juice sticky on their fingers. Ama licked hers clean without shame. Elizabeth watched her, eyes dark and unreadable.

One afternoon, a soldier arrived with papers. Ama could not read them, but she knew the shape of seizure when she saw it.

Elizabeth read aloud, her voice steady but her hands shaking. “Crown administration of coastal salt resources. Compensation to be determined.”

Ama listened without interrupting.

“They will fence the pans,” Elizabeth said quietly, once the soldier left. “Regulate output. Tax distribution.”

“Who decides compensation?” Ama asked.

Elizabeth did not answer.

That night, Ama did not sleep.

She met with the elders before dawn. Plans were made. Messengers sent inland. Salt could disappear as easily as it appeared, if one knew how to break a pan without leaving evidence.

Elizabeth watched Ama prepare baskets with a careful slowness.

“You can’t stop them,” Elizabeth said.

“I can make it difficult,” Ama replied.

Elizabeth hesitated. “They will ask who helped you.”

Ama looked at her then. “Did you?”

Elizabeth’s mouth tightened. “I wrote what I was told to write.”

“Then you have already chosen,” Ama said.

The words landed harder than Ama intended.

Elizabeth reached for her. Ama stepped away.

That night, the air was heavy with coming rain. Elizabeth came to Ama’s mat without asking. They lay facing each other, close enough to share breath. “I do not have words for what I am to you,” Elizabeth said. “But I know what it will cost me.”

Ama studied her face  the fear, the resolve. “Words are not required.”

Elizabeth touched Ama’s hand, tentative, reverent.

Their bodies came together without ceremony, without promise. An embrace  was not the joining of futures. It was an acknowledgment  of labour shared, of risk taken, of something precise and fragile in a world built to erase it.

In the morning, the pans were broken. Rain fell hard and sudden, flooding the shallow beds, carrying salt back into the sea.

The soldiers arrived two days later. They found damage, confusion, resistance. They found Elizabeth gone. Ama learned later that Elizabeth had resigned her post, citing illness. She left with a small trunk and no recommendation.

# # #

Months passed, some pans were reclaimed and others were lost. Life continued unevenly, as it always had. On certain mornings, Ama tasted the salt and thought of hands that had learned patience beside hers. The sea did not remember Elizabeth Hartwell but Ama did. And that, she decided, was enough.

Sometimes, when the wind came from the west, carrying the scent of brine and distant rain, Ama would pause mid-harvest and look to the horizon. Not in longing, but in recognition. As if somewhere, across the water, someone else was remembering too.


Show Notes

This quarter’s fiction episode presents Salt for the Unmarried by Khayelihle Benghu, narrated by Heather Rose Jones.

Links to the Lesbian Historic Motif Project Online

Links to Heather Online

Major category: 

Going far.

May. 30th, 2026 09:49 pm
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As I work through Steven Spielberg's movies, it's a strange sensation to be watching something objectively gorgeous and terrifically well-made that simply doesn't do a whole lot for me. West Side Story was unquestionably good, and I had such a hard time getting into it for reasons beyond the joy of the spectacle.

As I work through editing, I take comfort in knowing I had a good time writing a given scene and if I need it later, I can use those words, and if the scene I'm working on right now says it's over, I need to listen to what I've got in front of me, not what's behind me. I don't know where the rest of the story's going, and I know not to look for places to put it - if I don't find anything, then that's not worth wringing my hands over.

As I try to keep myself from getting too restless while watching movies, I find I can easily touch my toes, though not put my palms to the floor. Something to possibly work through, as well.
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Diary of a Cranky Bookworm
by Aster Glenn Gray

This remarkable book not only captures EXACTLY what an adolescent diary can be like (the intensity! the self drama! the emotional whiplash!), but also tells a really honest, raw, funny, painful, joyful story about how friendships change, why and how friends can fall out of alignment, and how we make new friends.

A lot of coming-of-age stories feature socially alienated protagonists who eventually manage to find a circle of friends that accepts them, maybe in the context of breaking free of their awful communities or families. But plenty of people come of age and have to deal with a widening sense of what life is like, what friendship is, and who they themselves are who aren’t particularly socially alienated and who maybe have a fairly happy home life, thanks very much.

Sage, the titular cranky diarist, is one such. She’s got a supportive group of friends that she loves and who love her. She’s maybe not the queen bee of her high school, but she’s definitely not a bullied social outcast. She’s smart and enjoys being smart, but she’s not a revenge-of-the-nerds-style nerd. She doesn’t have any life-shaping problems. If the story’s protagonist had been her friend Arielle or her friend Georgie, there would have been life-shaping problems, but then it would have been a much more conventional story. One thing that’s special about Diary is how gripping Sage’s struggles are even though they’re maybe not NPR-worthy. Choosing colleges for example. Stressful! Drama-filled!

Here, Sage is finally admitting to Georgie that maybe she doesn’t want, after all, to go to the U, which is Georgie’s dream college. Georgie speaks first:
”Why are we visiting St. Olaf?”
“My parents want me to.”
“Haven’t you told them you’re going to the U?”
I shuffled my feet on the porch floor and looked down at my Beloit sweatshirt. “Well,” I said, “I’m not totally-for-sure going to the U, so … and they want me to visit St. Olaf, and …”
“But we’ve been planning to attend the U forever!” she cried.
You’ve been planning that we’re going to attend the U,” I said.
“Since when?” Georgie demanded. “Since when was it only my plan?”
“Since—since, like, always, Georgie, it’s not like there’s a specific moment when I didn’t agree to it.”
“But you never said!” Georgie cried. She glared at me. “So are you planning not to go to the U?”
“Georgie! I don’t have—I haven’t made any definite decisions yet.”

Speaking of college applications, Sage’s list of potential essay topics is pretty hilarious:
  1. College Is the Portal Fantasy I Was Looking for All Along

  2. A Time I Experienced Hardship. Would be more compelling if I had in fact experienced hardship.

  3. An Invented Experience of Hardship. I would never have the moxie to actually make something up for a college essay. Curious to know what Arielle wrote about, though--

  4. The Hardship of Having to Write a College Essay When You Are Far Less Impressive Than You Ever Realized

  5. Who Invented the College Admission Essay, Anyway? A Study in Human Depravity

It’s against the backdrop of college applications, planning birthday parties, and joining a club (Sage: ugh!) that the most high-maintenance of Sage’s friends starts becoming more and more erratic as meanwhile one of Sage’s sworn enemies (there’s no enemy like an enemy you make in second grade) might actually be turning into a friend. (Maybe even ... ) And all this is handled so real-ly and so feeling-ly, it’s just a delight to read.

I also have to mention that during the course of the story, Sage writes a novel. And … it’s got problems (Surprise! High school student does not write a flawless novel), as she comes to see from conversations with her friends. This all felt very real indeed, part of the process of growing as a writer.

So much growing in this story!

Because it’s AGG writing, there are also reflections on literature and art. I’m going to close with one of those:
For our final, Mrs. Helton had us analyze a poem, Fyodor Tytchev’s “Silentium,” as translated by Vladimir Nabokov. I don’t remember it all of course, but a line stuck in my head:
“A thought once uttered is untrue.”
It struck me to the heart, as if it is really deeply true. And yet is it?
I think it’s impossible to tell the complete truth, especially about feelings which are so complicated and often contradictory. But I don’t think a partial truth is necessarily a lie, do you?
It just seems so sad, the idea that we can never communicate the things that are deepest in our hearts. As if drawing them uppermost in our souls, so that we can show them to others, transmutes them to something irrevocably different and unreal.

Truly a great read. I’m a whole generation older than the characters, didn’t grow up in the midwest, and was much more withdrawn and outsider-ish in high school than Sage and her friends, and I still loved it.

Diary of a Cranky Bookworm

Cover of Diary of a Cranky Bookworm, showing photos, old-style cell phone

some things make a post

May. 30th, 2026 11:20 pm
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  1. The smitten kitchen pesto chickpea thing remains excellent. As does the ridiculous strata.
  2. On my way back from the gym today I did An Explore of a Different Route and along an excellent winding little path I found A Walnut Tree!
  3. I remembered to put the bat detector out at dusk; we detected bats!
  4. I did actually feel deadlifts down the back of my legs today! -- I don't think I was doing anything different, I think it was just that they were slightly sore when I started today which made it easier to focus on them.
  5. I have spent a lot of time today that I was not Moving My Body mostly horizontal and managing to actually read some fiction. It has been lovely.
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I recently read a book that was, in part, a retelling of the fairytale "Donkeyskin". There was a list of trigger warnings at the start of said book, but "incest" wasn't among them. Nothing physical actually happens, but much like in the fairytale, the protagonist spends a not insignificant portion of the book (I want to say at least a quarter, but don't quote me on that) threatened by the prospect of being forced to marry/have sex with her father the king. I feel like that should still warrant a warning? Or maybe "being a Donkeyskin retelling" (obvious from summary/etc) is the warning? Idk, I feel like that's not enough, especially since Donkeyskin isn't particularly well known. Or maybe I'm overthinking things.
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The sonic boom heard across Massachusetts earlier this afternoon has been deemed the explosion of a bolide meteor east of Boston. Which is much more awesome than many other reasons for booms over New England and I can hope that not all the fragments fell into the sea. None of them appear to be in our back yard despite the air-concussing noise freaking out Hestia. Our neighborhood suffers so many flash-bangs to the cochlea, I mistook it for a byproduct of construction—I had earplugs in—rather than the cosmos coming home.
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Posted by Zach Weinersmith



Click here to go see the bonus panel!

Hovertext:
Really should've asked about the ship label before he got in.


Today's News:

Not quite the Bionic Woman

May. 30th, 2026 08:06 am
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The thing that always bothered me about the bionic man and bionic woman shows was the introductory images showing where their artificial parts were installed. OK, so you have an enhanced and reinforced arm and you go to lift an impossibly heavy weight. But your spine is not reinforced so that's where everything goes sideways. Literally.

In any case, I've always assumed that "bionic" involves something more than simple strengthening, although artificial hips and knees do seem to fit the bill. Much more solidly, my brothers implanted defibrillator is clearly bionics. But a mere titanium reinforcement plate? I don't think that gets me in the bionic club.

So yesterday I had my operation on my broken arm. It was all very smooth, successful, and uneventful other than being the main event. Massive props to the surgery staff and nursing staff at Kaiser Dublin. The ambulatory surgery wing has this fascinating almost assembly-line structure with a ring of individual patient bays around the central nursing station. You get a succession of visits from all the different individual functions getting you set up, sorted out, and interviewed. Everyone allowed plenty of time for chatting and questions, making the whole process more friendly and relaxed.

My input regarding aftercare was accepted and discussed seriously, especially with regard to expectations around pain management. I declined getting additional oxycodone beyond the prescription I hadn't used from the initial bone-setting and it looks like that will be plenty to get me through the initial stages, relying more solidly on Tylenol. I got a solid night sleep last night so I think I'm on top of that aspect.

The nerve blocks that they done on various parts of my arm wore off at different times. Initially my ring and pinky fingers were numb and the back of my thumb was numb and while the first two came back over the course of the evening I was a little worried that the thumb was still numb when I went to bed. But on waking up, it's definitely coming back too so I guess it just got an extra big dose.

I reluctantly decided to skip the party I had scheduled for this evening (yes, I know, I know, I was being stupid to think I could make it in any event) but expect to be solidly on for tomorrow's presence at the Bay Area Book Festival in Berkeley. I'll be taking BART in, with all my books and paraphernalia in a rollaway which makes everything much easier. And it's a group table with the Bay Area Queer Writers Association so I'll have friends and back-up there.
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‘There is no way to stop this’: ‘Biotech Barbie’ Cathy Tie on her mission to genetically modify babies

Gene editing has the power to alter the trajectory of human evolution for ever; the direction it takes will depend on who wields the editing tools. “There is no public funding available for researchers in the space,” Tie explains. “Everything is privately funded.” It’s up to entrepreneurs to demonstrate the potential benefits for humankind, she says, so regulators may soften their hardline stance and allow them to rewrite human DNA.

O gee, we wonder why that is, and whether that is because it is flim-flam.

Also, just look at the people who are funding this, and we think that this is the C21st equivalent of Citizen Kane trying to make his mistress an opera star.

And as for this, I don't think she can really get away from it?

“Eugenics is a very heavy word,” Tie says just before taking questions from the floor. “I would prefer to stop throwing that word around.”

Can't help thinking this is another version of that thing I posted earlier this week about the supposition that you can make a quick 'n easy path to Big Desirable Scientific Breakthrough -

- and somehow I have been thinking all week about Charles Darwin moseying around the Galapagos, and over the subsequent decades gradually evolving the theory of evolution....

Unfortunately 'The Big Idea' on AI children as the future of reproduction is not yet online.

I also think of the fairly parlous state even in relatively advanced countries of women's ability to reliably control their fertility, have high-quality safe obstetrical care, etc, issues around children' nutrition, early years care, education....

But I guess these things do not have a gosh-wow factor.

Blackout Bingo - 2X2 Greek Myths

May. 30th, 2026 04:03 pm
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Title: Death at the Spring Play
Fandoms: Miss Marple - Agatha Christie
Ratings: G
Pairings: Miss Marple, Inspector Slack
Prompts from the Themes List: Wall, Crew, Family, Gold

Death at the Spring Play on AO3

Home again, home again...

May. 30th, 2026 09:50 am
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While I always enjoy other people making omelettes for me, I did miss the homestyle breakfast conversation while I was at the ocean.


#
Saturday. Rainy, cool, and blowy. I guess a piece of the gale that was bearing down on OOB yesterday found its way inland.

Station Air off, heat on. First cup of tea brewing.

First -- many thanks to everyone who has offered to adopt, and in some cases, buy, my Stuff, but -- I'm not selling. I still want my jar of marbles. What I don't want is for them to be treated like the Incomprehensible Garbage collected by A Crazy Old Woman after I've gotten done. I wish, in a word, to provide honorably for them. I also have a jar with some bits of sea glass in it. I feel less strongly about it, but still want it to be creditably established with someone who knows sea glass -- especially sea glass that isn't brown (beer bottles) -- for the small miracle it is.

We can do a tour of the marbles at some point, if there's interest, but I'm not adopting them out, just yet. I need them.

This is related to my determination to stay in this house. Though Steve and I didn't live here anywhere near as long as we did in the house in Winslow, Steve made sure to create a space that would help us both remember ourselves. It's also the reason he took so many pictures of just everyday life. This house is my memory palace, if not actually a carapace, that keeps me from 'sploding out in all directions at once.

Well. It's Saturday, as they say, and I'm just back from vacation so that must mean!

Yep. Laundry.

What's everybody else doing today?

Below, the jar of marbles. You may be able to see that some of those items? Aren't marbles.


Books Received, May 23 — May 29

May. 30th, 2026 09:12 am
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Just three new books this week. One fantasy, one horror, and one science fiction. All appear to be stand-alone.

Books Received, May 23 — May 29


Poll #34666 Books Received, May 23 — May 29
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 41


Which of these look interesting?

View Answers

Harbour of Hungry Ghosts by Eliza Chan (July 2026)
15 (36.6%)

Every Room a Hunger by Nino Cipri (February 2027)
7 (17.1%)

Radiant Star by Ann Leckie (May 2026)
30 (73.2%)

Some other option (see comments)
0 (0.0%)

Cats!
25 (61.0%)

(no subject)

May. 30th, 2026 12:29 pm
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Happy birthday, [personal profile] nancylebov!
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We have acquired a household grain mill. First, and most shallowly, it is very pretty. We got a 25 kg sack of landrace wheat grains from a local farm, plus various other whole grains, and now we can make bread from freshly ground flour, which is exciting! It really does make more delicious bread. We can also grind a lot of other things, such as coffee, acorns, maize, dry legumes, nuts, etc. Aside from breads, I have discovered the world of things that can be done with roughly ground/crushed grain, which can also be done with the mill! You soak it overnight to improve nutrition and reduce cooking time, and then you can use it to make various risotto-like dishes--I bought a whole cookbook just about this (Den nya gröten by Sebastian Boudet). I'll post a recipe some time. And it's also very exciting to try emmer, spelt, einkorn, and other kinds of grain you can't usually buy in grocery stores. We're growing various kinds of grain ourselves this year on a small scale. BUT there is a reason milling was mechanized, and I think we'll eventually get an electric motor and a belt to drive the mill.

Here's an unusual (to me, at least) bread recipe I tried recently, which was unexpectedly delicious:Read more... )

For something completely different, have a link to an interesting long essay on math and AI and the nature of math and mathematicians.

Dreamies

May. 30th, 2026 08:54 am
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 The cat has gone off his Dreamies (little dark brown biscuity thinga containing "real chicken") so I scatter them for the resident gull who hasn't. Resident gull is pecking away when a somehat bigger gull descends from on high and there is squwaking and beakwork. Resident gull resorts to the pulling of tail feathers but then a third gull (the intruder's mate?) joins in and resident gull is chased away.

One shouldn't judge. One shouldn't take sides. This is just how gulls are.

The intruders clean up and leave. Resident gull returns. I scatter more Dreamies....

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