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From today’s NY Times, in the weekly Social Q’s column.

Our youngest, who is 37 and uses they/them pronouns, has a long history of psychological problems. They sent a text informing us that they no longer want to interact with family members, and that if we want to meet with them, they require an advocate to be present. This child lives in our second home. They don’t pay rent, but they have a job that covers food and health insurance costs. We’re not sure what caused the break. They had a very bad interaction with our son, and we asked them to work it out themselves. But our son wants nothing to do with his sibling, and my husband wants to stop communicating with them, too. He says they are toxic. I am heartbroken. What should I do?

MOTHER


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Economics

Mar. 25th, 2026 11:38 am
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Switzerland : Voters Overwhelmingly Choose to Protect Cash Use in the Constitution

Switzerland has become the latest European country to constitutionally enshrine the right to use cash, joining Hungary, Slovakia, and Slovenia. On March 8, 2026, Swiss voters overwhelmingly approved a legal amendment to safeguard the use of banknotes and coins, with 73.4% supporting the measure.


Watch for opportunities to secure your financial liberties in America or wherever else you live.

Labels

Mar. 25th, 2026 03:29 pm
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12/52 for the group 2026 Weekly Alphabet Challenge

This week's theme was: L is for Labels

The labels in a couple of t-shirts. I've had these for a few years now. Seasalt clothes are not cheap, but they last a long time.

T-shirt labels

Going the long way round

Mar. 25th, 2026 02:43 pm
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There has been an interesting development re the parcel that didn't arrive, even though it was tracked to the sorting office less than half a mile away. I decided I'd call in at the office this morning to see if they had it, but looking at the tracking before I set off, I saw it was shown as arriving in Belfast, Northern Ireland! I have no idea how that happened. I can only assume that someone managed to throw it into the wrong bag.

Anyway I called in at the office and gave the chap behind the counter the tracking number. He disappeared into the back for an awful long time, then returned with a 3 page printout showing the parcel's journey so far. He assured me that it should come back to Wales and indeed the detailed tracking shows it as now being in the outward mail from Northern Ireland.

More parcel journey news when I have it...

In other news...

There were more people at the Welsh chat this morning. I had been worried that the group had dwindled to a hard core of regulars, but we've suddenly gained 3 or 4 new people.

Finally, the weather is at its most changeable today. It's as though someone is trying to install spring, but it's not quite sticking and the weather is flickering between seasons. One minute it's dark and gloomy winter with heavy hail, the next it's bright spring with blue sky and sunshine.

One foot in front of the other

Mar. 25th, 2026 10:39 am
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What went before: Tuesday: So, that was no fun. Woke up sobbing sometime around midnight, apparently so I could buckle down and get the thing done properly. The cats piled on and did their best; Rook left at one point and came back with one of the floppy foxes he uses as wrasslin trainers when Tali don't wanna, and tucked it under my chin.

Long story short, I finally went back to bed around 7, woke up around 10, with a headache naturally, and all things taken up and tallied, I do believe that today I'm taking one of my banked Sick Days.

Do feel free to talk among yourselves.
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Wednesday. Sunny and going to be warmer.

Slept long and hard, assisted by coon cats. Woke up hungry, but haven't done anything about that yet. I'm thinking scrambled eggs and sausage are on the menu, as soon as I'm finished here.

Today, I need to go out and run errands. Notably, I need to take the Epson ink jet to the repair shop. The proposition that I do so was not met with Wild Enthusiasm, but an agreement that they could "look at it" and see if it was something simple. If not, printers being so twitchy and hard to fix and all, the advice is that I would be "better off" buying a new one. So, we'll see, I guess.

Also need to go to the grocery store and probably the post office. Then back home for some more reading of the WIP. Oh, and figuring out how to cancel Cook Unity, instead of just stalling it, which is what I did for this week.

I still have the lingering rags of a headache, and I'm inclined to call Foul, but, hey, maybe breakfast will help. EDITED TO ADD: Breakfast has been et. Feeling much more The Thing.

How's everybody doing?
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Ink Jet Printers: A Teaching Fable.

Once upon a time, printers were rated as to the number of pages per week they could be expected to handle without having a screaming breakdown. Those printers that could handle a heavy workload, week in and out, were called "office printers."

We here at the Cat Farm and Confusion Factory legitimately ran offices: we printed letters, and manuscripts, and flyers, and all sorts of things, and because we subscribed to the Asimov Theory of Typewriters (paraphrased): "Always have a spare, and a spare for the spare, because you don't ever want to be in a position where broken technology means you can't write" -- we each had our own printer and (usually) a printer that still kinda sorta worked, which had been semi-retired, and could be pressed back into service in case Catastrophe Struck.

We bought, in a word, for the Ages. At the moment there are two high-capacity printers in this house, both inkjets, both work horses, neither cheap. Both are, yes, more than 8 years old, because I remember Steve carrying them into this house like they were infants.

In comparison, back in 2012, I went to live for a month at the ocean, where I was going to be finishing the second Carousel book and making a good start on the third. Obviously, I needed a printer, but! I didn't want to schlepp my good printer to the ocean and risk getting sand in the workings.

So, I went to Staples and I bought, I kid you not, a sixty dollar inkjet printer, which came with two ink cartridges, guaranteeing, I think, 600 pages between them. Subsequent cartridges cost Approximately The Earth. Important Plot Point.

Off to the ocean I went. The Sixty Clam Printer worked flawlessly for the entire time I was away, and I did not stint it. When the month ended, I brought it home, and put it online as a "spare," mostly to use up what was left of the ink.

Two weeks after I got home, the Sixty Clam Printer died the true-death, without even finishing the ink in the second cartridge. I took it to the local computer recycling joint, and waved good-bye. Sixty Clams owed me nothing, and it certainly wasn't worth getting it fixed, not with what the home office was charging for ink, and I had a Good Printer at home.

Moral! Not all ink jet printers are cheap pieces of crap that ought to just be thrown away when they develop a glitch. Analysis is worth your time.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk.


Back to Texas

Mar. 25th, 2026 10:17 am
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I made a lightning trip back to Texas over the weekend for my daughter's engagement ceremony. She is marrying a Hindu man. The ceremony was lovely, and a wonderful chance for the two families to get to know each other. I tried a lot of foods that I never have before and found some I really liked.

Dallas was stupidly hot and I'm glad I don't live there anymore. We all decided that we wouldn't trade Michigan winters for Texas summers.

I didn't get a chance to look up any friends in the area because nearly every minute was booked. We drove around a bit when we had a spare few minutes (those were in short supply) and looked at some of our old haunts. It was familiar but definitely not 'home' anymore.

I'm exhausted and all my schedules are in disarray - eating, cleaning, sleeping, and so on. Routine may be boring at times, but at other times, it's a relief.

We didn't encounter any TSA problems at any airports, nor did we see any ICE presence.
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What a Fish Looks Like
by Syr Hayati Beker

Read this thanks to [personal profile] skygiants' excellent review (here).

I loved the style of storytelling--love the way the author's mind works--and enjoyed aspects of the story a lot, but overall, I wasn't the right audience for the book. The right audience would be someone who is as interested in all the ideas as I am, but who is also very invested in portraits of people experiencing all the emotions associated with a breakup. The various narrators are really feeling their feelings about one another, and to enjoy the book fully, you need to be there for that.

It's the climate apocalypse, and some people are fleeing earth and others are staying, and there's conversation about what those decisions mean and what goes into them, but with a very loud undertone about what commitment to a lover means and what abandonment is, and bravery, etc. I was interested in the conversations about commitment to Earth more than the associated subtext (sometimes supertext) about commitment to one another.

So I read about halfway through with deep absorption, then skimmed the rest.

But the language and ideas are great. This quote, about hosting extinct animals' DNA, shows how marvelously the author explores the idea (and also how they nudge you about human relationships).
It's not like sharing a bed, struggling at first and then finding a rhythm. It's not like grafting an apricot branch to a plum tree. It is: your DNA turned into a factory for the DNA of extinct species until the day the world is safe enough that we can let the ghosts out, resurrected. Until then, it's a shorter life, but maybe less lonely. Maybe that's all there ever was.

There's also a great part where a character may or may not be talking to a collective mer-consciousness. The author plays with "A Lone" (a single, noncollective being, alone) and "Re-member" (come back into collectivity, remember). I loved the mer-collective's voice:

We remember what we eat
One Song:
One time a sailor fell off his ship. "Can you swim?" we said
No
So we ate him. Drank his tears
Now he is not
A Lone

And there's also a part about putting on a play (Antigone) that keeps doing "X, but Y" in very funny ways, e.g.,
The Sphinx, but with affirmations instead of riddles. It says, "what you are is fabulous, and that's what you are." It says, "the thing that walks on any number of legs belongs."
...
Your life, but in Thebes. Thebes is nice. It has no laundry, only sand.
...
A break up, but so well lit, you overcome your differences and fall back in love.
...
Romeo and Juliet, but with cell phones. Their elopement succeeds. Nobody dies. They move to a small apartment in Milan. They love and hate one another their whole lives, sheltered from the cold, touching all the old familiar walls.

Those are just some; there were more. The last of those X, but Y examples grated on me a little. I know "they love and hate one another their whole lives" is a thing that really does happen, but it feels very overrepresented in theater and literary fiction, and "touching all the old familiar walls" feels like every single young rebel's blithe certainty that they're going to live life differently.

But maybe they will! And people get to declare what they want for audiences that are thirsting to hear it.

So: good book, great ideas, me: not the target audience, but very glad to have read it.

ETA: I've gone this whole review without acknowledging that this book is queer centered. This book is queer centered! The lovers are nonbinary or trans, most of them. This was neither a plus nor a minus for me, but if you're yearning to spend time in a fully realized queer space, this story provides that--so that would be an added mark in its favor.
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Workday Weirdness
By Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams
Part 2 of 2, complete
Word count (story only): 1040
[November 2017]


:: Jaliya is in the first minutes of opening the Eatery when someone freaks out at the sight of cats hiding under the big trash bins behind the kitchen. When she spots their wings, she understands the panic. Part of the Polychrome Heroics universe in the Mercedes story arcs. Written for the March 2026 Magpie Monday from an idea suggested by [personal profile] siliconshaman, and posted for everyone to enjoy, with my thanks! ::


Back to part one
:: Thanks for reading! ::




The receptionist did, in fact, have the veterinarian’s contact information. However, he went several steps farther. “How many cats in the group?”

Jaliya pinched the bridge of her nose. “Six kittens, plus the mama cat. I saw one cat that might be related, gray with dabs of green like points on a Siamese, but they’re off under bushes nearby. Why?”

“We can send a supply kit,” the man who’d introduced himself with a single name, Reed, assured her.
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Mar. 25th, 2026 09:48 am
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Happy birthday, [personal profile] staranise!

Renewable Energy

Mar. 25th, 2026 12:15 am
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The Costs of Renewable Energy

Experts are really far apart on what such a world-wide renewable infrastructure would cost.


There are also costs other than financial. Take wind power. To flying creatures (bats, birds, butterflies, etc.) those are whirling blades of doom. Less dangerous models exist, but are less popular as they tend to be more expensive and/or less efficient. Then there is the problem of noise and vibration. Up close, it's usually miserable for people. Farther away, even the subliminal effects can cause problems like headaches and distraction. In other words, it's not good to put a wind farm near where people live, where "near" can mean 3-5 miles.

Good News

Mar. 25th, 2026 12:09 am
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Good news includes all the things which make us happy or otherwise feel good. It can be personal or public. We never know when something wonderful will happen, and when it does, most people want to share it with someone. It's disappointing when nobody is there to appreciate it. Happily, blogging allows us to share our joys and pat each other on the back.

What good news have you had recently? Are you anticipating any more? Have you found a cute picture or a video that makes you smile? Is there anything your online friends could do to make your life a little happier?

Clever music marketing trick

Mar. 24th, 2026 10:11 pm
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K-pop group STAYC just released the longest K-pop album I've ever heard: 17 songs, 50 minutes. It's called Stay Alive. Based on the title, I thought it was a live album, which intrigued me: I'd never heard a K-pop live album, because the K-pop industry is run by people like A., who want the live version to sound exactly like the recorded version, so there's no point in releasing a live album.

Anyway, I started listening to Stay Alive. The first song makes it clear that it's not a live album. By the time I got to the third song, I noticed that all the songs were being sung in Japanese. So I checked track list: It's Japanese versions of all of their songs. Then it hit me: I checked the dates, and November of this year will be sixth anniversary of STAYC's debut. Depending on how far in advance of their debut they signed their contracts, they could already be in the sixth year of their seven-year contract. And suddenly the whole album makes sense: They're showing their label that they can sing all of their songs in Japanese, in hopes that the label will start promoting them in Japan and also renew their contract, so that the group can "stay alive"! (I hope it works — I really like STAYC, and I'd hate to see them disband.)

Wednesday's sneeeeky-gate comic

Mar. 24th, 2026 11:13 pm
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The sneeky gate is open... and this one's a four-pager!

💥😖!
the nicely-crafted full four-page montage

Daily Happiness

Mar. 24th, 2026 07:55 pm
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1. Today when I was just coming back to the store from my after-lunch walk, I saw some people coming out who looked familiar and realized it was Bill and Lisa, a couple of local travel/food vloggers we watch occasionally. I told them I like their channel and they were very friendly.

2. Only one more week of work before vacation! Trying not to stress out about it too much, but there are so many things to stress out about. At least LAX does not seem to be affected by the TSA/ICE issues other airports are facing.

3. Gemma has such a kittenish look in this picture! Those eyes!

Mileage.

Mar. 24th, 2026 09:56 pm
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It took me about an hour and a half to walk about four miles today. I had a couple of hours to get from 72nd street down to 4th street, so I figured I might as well go on foot to use the time. I didn't get a lot of thinking done, which I put down to having to keep dodging and weaving through crowds - that kind of thing's easier when there's nobody in my way, on foot or any other method of transportation. Which is on me for sticking to a busy street at a busy time of day than walking a few blocks over and trying on that.

There's also my head's not here or there, and I need to find some space to drift.

Book 26, 2026

Mar. 24th, 2026 09:21 pm
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Purrfect Kill (The Mysteries of Max #17)Purrfect Kill by Nic Saint

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


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I finished reading Purrfect Kill by Nic Saint last night. It’s the 17th “Mysteries of Max” book, featuring fat orange cat Max and Odelia, his human.

There’s been another murder in Hampton Cove. This time pop star Chickie Hay has been found dead in her mansion. Odelia joins Chase and her Uncle Alec as they go to investigate, and Odelia brings her four cats along to see if they can glean some clues. The investigation unearths lax security, a crazed fan, a best frenemy, and a former manager who had a beef with Chickie. Clues and witness statements don’t seem to add up, but Max, Odelia, and the others are determined to crack the case.

If the author would stick to the main plot, these books would be much more enjoyable. Instead, we have Vesta (Gran) acting like a tween twat again, as well as a subplot of the same inept burglars from a previous book putting in a return appearance. Even Harriet the cat was acting like a moron. The main plot was good, but the subplots dragged it all down.

Favorite lines:
♦ “She collected grudges and feuds like other people collected shoes or stamps.”
♦ Abe Cornwall is the county coroner and looks as if at some point he swallowed another county coroner. The man is large.
♦ It’s a pity our paws are outfitted with soft pink pads. It hampers our ability to applaud.
♦ “Dooley caught a killer? How did that happen?” // “I found an inseminating piece of evidence,” said Dooley happily. // “Not inseminating, incriminating,” Harriet corrected him.

Can’t score this any higher than a three.

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Workday Weirdness
By Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams
Part 1 of 2
Word count (story only): 1263
[November 2017]


:: Jaliya is in the first minutes of opening the Eatery when someone freaks out at the sight of cats hiding under the big trash bins behind the kitchen. When she spots their wings, she understands the panic. Part of the Polychrome Heroics universe in the Mercedes story arcs. Written for the March 2026 Magpie Monday from an idea suggested by [personal profile] siliconshaman, and posted for everyone to enjoy, with my thanks! ::


On to part two




At a quarter after four in the morning, Bethan’s old alarm clock began vibrating under Jaliya’s pillow. She fumbled, but turned it off on the second hit. Jaliya had showered before bed, because her mom’s work hours meant that she’d be waking up in an hour. Dressing quickly, Jaliya padded into the kitchen to start breakfast.

She stared at the coffee pot in the bottom corner cabinet, then shook her head. Making coffee for her mother might cause a heart attack under the weight of the shock.
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Mar. 24th, 2026 02:53 pm
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Dear Pay Dirt,
My husband and I are fortunate enough to be homeowners with pretty good credit. We get credit card and loan offers in the mail all the time. I’ve been trying to declutter our house, and junk mail is a big issue. Everything goes on the entry way table and its always overflowing. I set up a recycle bin in the entry way for just such physical spam, but my husband won’t use it because he says we have to SHRED all those offers, and our shredder is not big enough to deal with all the constant clutter! Also, the shredder is in his office, and he only gets to it every other month or so, so the workflow doesn’t keep up.

I know that’s the best, most secure way to deal with junk. But really, our recycle bin is kept in the garage until the night before the garbage is collected., then we roll it out to the curb. We always put other recycling on top of the mail.

Is it really that dangerous to just toss those mailers as is? Maybe tear them up by hand first? Please help!
—Drowning in Junk Mail


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